Do not be shy, lets dance together!
Shyness, Enjoyment and Activeness of Western People
The first time that I danced was at Foker building, kinesiology department in Iowa State University. For the two semester in ISU, I took Jazz dance class and ballroom dance. Taking dance classes were the second best choice that I had made during exchange periods; the first best choice was to go backpacking. The reason why I dare registered these classes was that I wanted to see whether I could dance or not. It was the same like testing myself. I love listening to music and I love singing. Dance is the last thing that I wanted to conquer. I learned Jazz dance, eastern swing dance, Waltz, Chacha, etc. It was very fun and good way to meet new people. Regardless of gender, they were cool, nice, good manner, and sociable. As time goes by, I was getting used to dancing with people who I don’t know and enjoying dancing people. Later, I made group of people to go dance social and taught some moves to students who had not danced before.
One thing that I observed was the activeness of western society people. they do not have any problems talking, dancing, and hanging out with people who they do not know. it took times for me that getting used to this culture which is totally different with Korea. However, I do not think that I am afraid of meeting or talking with strangers anymore. Instead of being shy, I would go first to ask dance and talk